Impamvu 5 abakobwa basigaye bifuza kuryamana n’abagabo bubatse harimo no kuba abasore batabaryohereza iyi baryamanye:INKURU>>>>>

Ni benshi usanga bibaza impamvu usanga abakobwa beza b’ibizungereza basuzugura abasore b’urungano nyuma ugasanga basohokanye n’abagabo bazi neza ko bafite ingo, rimwe na rimwe bafite n’abana bakuru.

1.Kubakurikiraho ifaranga: Abakobwa benshi bazi ko abasore nta mafaranga baba bafite [ Ngo ntakibavaho] bityo bakifuza kuryamana n’abagabo kuko baba bazi ko icyo bifuza cyose bakibaha.

Aha niho usanga baba biringiye kubakuraho impano zirimo telefoni zihenze, imodoka, imyambaro n’ibindi bihenze, batitaye ku kuba uwo mugabo arimo gusenya no gusahura urugo rwe.

Aha niho usanga abakobwa benshi bandurira indwara zirimo na Sida kubera kwiruka ku mitungo, bamwe babyira gukura ibyinyo, akemera agatanga umubiri ariko agahabwa ibyo ashaka.

2. Kwishimisha mu mibonano: Abakobwa benshi basanzwe basambana ntabwo baba bizeye ko abasore babageza ku byifuza bifuza mu mibonano mpuzabitsina rimwe na rimwe bitewe n’uko nta bunararibonye babifitemo, bityo bagahitamo gusambana n’abagabo bakabageza ku munezero bifuza.

3. Kwirinda inkeke za buri kanya : Kubera gutendeka abasore n’abagabo benshi, abakobwa biyiziho izi ngeso ntabwo baba bashaka ibibatera stress, guhamagarwa bya buri kanya, Cherie urihe, ndagushaka, uri kumwe na nde? Ni nde mwari kumwe nijoro, kuki utambwiye, kuki utanyitabye,… Ibi ntabwo baba babyitayeho.

Umugabo ufite umugore nta kanya aba afite k’ibi nk’abasore ahubwo we mubonana mukora ibyo mukora niba ari nayo mafaranga agahita ayamuha. Ntabwo aba ashaka kukwandikira buri kanya kuko ushobora kumusubiza ugasanga ari kumwe n’umugore we, akaba arafashwe.

4.Amatsiko: Umukobwa umaze gusambana kabiri, gatatu, kane,… n’abasore bari mu kigero cye, hari igihe aba yumva akeneye no kumva uko byaba bimeze aryamanye n’umugabo umuruta. Ibi bijya binabaho ku basore bakagira irari ryo gushaka kuryamana n’abagore babyaye.

5. Guhurwa mu rukundo: Hari abakobwa usanga bava mu mashuri abanza babeshywa urukundo ari nako bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina, bakagera muri za segonderi, kaminuza no mu buzima busanzwe nko mu kazi, uko imyaka igenda iza ugasanga amaze kubeshywa urukundo inshuro atabara. Ageraho akumva ahuzwe abasore, noneho agahitamo gucudika n’abagabo hamwe aba yumva anaharitswe nta kibazo kirimo.

Hari nabagabo usanga barashatse bakiri bato, bityo igihe cyose agahora agaragara nk’umusore, icyo gihe abakobwa benshi bamwibeshyaho rimwe na rimwe yanababwiza ukuri ntibabyemere, aha rero bashobora kuryamana atari uko bazi ko ari umugabo ahubwo ari uko bamwibeshyeho.

Gusa na none kuba umuntu yarashatse ntibivuze ko atakundwa cyangwa se ngo na we akunde kuko gukunda ni ibintu biba mu maraso ya muntu, gusa na none isezerano uba waragiranye n’umuntu ukaba ariryo uha agaciro kurusha izindi ntekerezo zose zakuzamo zokuganira ku bandi.

POSTED BY UWINEZA VANESSA KURI RWANDAPAPARAZZI.RW/ KGLI

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